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I Know How You Feel by F. Diane Barth
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I Know How You Feel

The Joy and Heartbreak of Friendship in Women’s Lives

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Narrator Erin Bennett

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Length 7 hours 19 minutes
Language English
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An expert’s rich exploration of the intense, complicated landscape of women’s friendships

“Do I have enough friends?” “Why did my friendship end?” and “What makes a good friendship work?”

These are questions that F. Diane Barth, a psychotherapist widely recognized for her expertise in women’s relationships, fields all the time. In I Know How You Feel, she draws out engaging stories from a lively and diverse cast of women, many of whom speak about feelings they haven’t shared before. She explores how life changes affect women’s friendships in subtle and not-so-subtle ways. Interweaving examples from classic women’s literature to chick flicks, she provides grounded advice on how to manage betrayal and rejection, how to deal with a narcissistic or bossy friend, what to do when your best friend and your family don’t get along, how to let go of a friendship that has stopped working, and much more. A timely, empathetic guide for women in their twenties to their sixties and beyond.

F. Diane Barth has worked as a psychotherapist in New York City for more than three decades. Her much-read Psychology Today blog is often on the subject of women’s friendships.

Erin Bennett is an actress, a singer, and a voiceover artist. As an actress, she has performed at numerous theaters, including the Pasadena Playhouse, the Arizona Theatre Company, and the International City Theatre. Her voiceover work includes animation, BBC radio plays, video games, commercials for radio and television, and a wide range of audiobooks, including contemporary fiction, mysteries, science fiction, and romance.

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Reviews

“The mature character of narrator Erin Bennett’s voice adds authority to the author’s insights on friendship and never dampens the emotional immediacy of her stories…With Bennett’s personal engagement making these truths even more compelling, this is an audio that will help people of all ages stay connected to others in spite of the obstacles. Winner of the AudioFile Earphones Award.”

“Barth’s engaging guide introduces readers to many types of women and ideas and contains timely advice for anyone who wants to befriend a woman.”

“A friendly, supportive guide for navigating relationships.”

“Eye-opening and essential reading for anyone trying to build—or maintain—a strong social circle.”

“In I Know How You Feel, Diane Barth refuses easy assumptions and definitions about women’s friendships. The result is a gorgeous and vital exploration of the landscape of women’s desire, capacity, and essential need for connection with other women.”

"I Know How You Feel is a smart, perceptive, and complex study of women’s friendships and how they enhance, color in, and shape our lives.”

“Diane Barth’s chapter on loss and rejection is incredibly insightful. I found it especially helpful in thinking about past relationships that didn’t seem to have a proper end.”

“Diane Barth helps us honor the richness, the joys, the everyday sustenance women’s friendships give, as well as the complications and difficulties these intimate friendships can engender. A smart guide for women of all ages.”

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