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Dating Sucks, but You Don't by Connell Barrett
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Dating Sucks, but You Don't

The Modern Guy's Guide to Total Confidence, Romantic Connection, and Finding the Perfect Partner

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Narrator Connell Barrett

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Length 7 hours 9 minutes
Language English
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From renowned international dating coach comes a “smart, funny, classy, and practical” (Mike Sacks, editor at Vanity Fair) dating guide for men looking to gain confidence and find lasting love in the #MeToo era.

Rejection. Ghosting. Not knowing how to talk to women. For many men, dating just sucks. But it doesn’t have to. There’s a simple yet powerful way to gain instant confidence and attract a great girlfriend: be authentic.

Whether you want to confidently approach women, get quality matches on dating apps, or learn how to avoid the “friend zone,” Dating Sucks, but You Don’t is your “must-read” (Mike Johnson, bestselling author of Make the Love You Want) step-by-step blueprint for landing your soulmate.

Using the power of “radical authenticity,” you’ll unlock your most awesome self and learn how to:
-Be magnetic as you…even if you’re not rich, tall, or great looking
-Always know what to say to ignite chemistry
-Get dates and connect with great women without using creepy “pickup artist” tricks
-Conquer fear and anxiety and confidently approach women (in a way they love)
-Get great matches and dates on Tinder, Bumble, Match, Hinge, or any other dating app
-Create a healthy, supportive relationship with someone who loves you for you

You definitely don’t suck. And when you have total self-confidence and great results, neither does dating.

Connell Barrett is the founder of Dating Transformation, where he serves as an international coach who helps guys connect with women by unlocking their best, true, most confident selves. Connell has appeared on shows such as Access Hollywood, the Today show, and Good Morning LA, and in many magazines, including Best LifeCosmopolitanOprah Daily, and Playboy. He’s also a dating coach for The League—a swiping app aimed at high-achievers—and an advisor for AskMen and EliteDaily. And in 2019 Datezie.com named him “New York City’s Best Male Dating Coach.” Connell was formerly an Executive Editor at Sports Illustrated, and he has written for EsquireMen’s Journal, and Salon. He lives and works in New York City. Learn more about him at DatingTransformation.com.

Connell Barrett is the founder of Dating Transformation, where he serves as an international coach who helps guys connect with women by unlocking their best, true, most confident selves. Connell has appeared on shows such as Access Hollywood, the Today show, and Good Morning LA, and in many magazines, including Best LifeCosmopolitanOprah Daily, and Playboy. He’s also a dating coach for The League—a swiping app aimed at high-achievers—and an advisor for AskMen and EliteDaily. And in 2019 Datezie.com named him “New York City’s Best Male Dating Coach.” Connell was formerly an Executive Editor at Sports Illustrated, and he has written for EsquireMen’s Journal, and Salon. He lives and works in New York City. Learn more about him at DatingTransformation.com.

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