Dancing with the Octopus

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Bravely looks at her family trauma and the hope of restorative justice—combining wit, drama, and deep self-reflection to investigate the aftershocks of a devastating crime. This moving story of grit and resilience will resonate with readers long after the final page is turned. A gripping memoir, Dancing With the Octopus is both a heartbreaking reconstruction of a crime and a powerful account of healing from trauma. Harding’s writing is exquisite, often funny… This book is personal, deeply and bravely thoughtful, and creatively expressed. . . . it can serve as a tool for the politically engaged. Darkly humorous . . . Harding draws a complex web of interlinked experiences to show how suffering can set up shop for good in a family and a town. Dancing With the Octopus joins a host of recent true crime memoirs dedicated to grounding crimes in a wider framework of social and familial contexts. Dancing with the Octopus is a brave and authentic picture of the tailwinds of trauma, the limits of human forgiveness and what it takes to maintain hope in a world bent on breaking us. Highly readable, and deeply moving. An incredible book … Debora writes with a lightness of touch that belies the heavy lifting in a work of such magnitude and power. This is a fantastic memoir . . . beautifully written and it’s an excellent example of trauma’s long hold on people. . . . An incredible look at depression and parenthood and forgiveness. . . . It is excellent. A gripping account of one woman's confrontation with the terror and heartbreak of her past. Harding combines true crime and family saga to illustrate the aftershocks of trauma, and the courage, tenderness, and humor that recovery requires. Compelling… Harding is completely honest, whether describing her wariness, defiance, bewilderment, self-doubt, or the truths she eventually discovered about herself and her parents. Her unsparing and candid observations allow readers to really get to know this strong, determined survivor. Debora Harding writes with a stunningly original mixture of insight, wit, and humanity about a life packed with so much drama, loss and resilience that you can’t believe its not an epic work of fiction. In this compelling and unflinching memoir which switches between past and present, Harding... unravels the impact of this random act of violence and of her dysfunctional childhood. It's a tale of trauma and PTSD, but also of recovery through the healing power of restorative justice, and of enduring love. A searing literary work that will help many of us see trauma in a different light. In strong and powerful prose Debora Harding shows us what it means to move forward through grief. Gripping . . . you are drawn in straight away. Extraordinary, so powerful and like nothing I've read. Astonishing book. It deserves to be the most massive hit. I have just finished reading Dancing with the Octopus... You are lucky! The electricity of this true crime memoir awaits you. Debora Harding's book is a beautiful and exacting monument to resilience and recovery. It's as gripping as any thriller and as moving as any novel you're ever likely to read. A powerful true story about a violent crime, a dysfunctional family, resilience, reckoning and recovery. With remarkable narrative skill, Harding untangles the lingering effects of family dysfunction and criminal trauma. This is a page-turner with a deep heart and soul, full of forgiveness but demanding of accountability. Expand reviews