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Controlling People by Patricia Evans
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Controlling People

How to Recognize, Understand, and Deal with People Who Try to Control You

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Narrator Xe Sands

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Length 6 hours 34 minutes
Language English
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Does this sound like someone you know?


  • Always needs to be right

  • Tells you who you are and what you think

  • Implies that you're wrong or inadequate when you don't agree

  • Is threatened by people who are "different"

  • Feels attacked when questioned

  • Doesn't seem to really hear or see you



If any of the above traits sounds familiar, help is on the way! In Controlling People, bestselling author Patricia Evans tackles the "controlling personality" and reveals how and why these people try to run other people's lives. She also explains the compulsion that makes them continue this behavior—even as they alienate others and often lose those they love.

Controlling People helps you unravel the senseless behavior that plagues both the controller and the victim. Can the pattern, or spell, be broken? Yes! says the author.

By understanding the compelling force involved, you can be a catalyst for change and actually become a spell-breaker. Once the spell is broken and the controller sees others as they really are, a genuine connection can be forged and healing can occur.

Should you ever find yourself in the thrall of someone close to you, Controlling People is here to give you the wisdom, power, and comfort you need to be a stronger, happier, and more independent person.

Patricia Evans is a highly acclaimed interpersonal communications specialist, public speaker, and consultant. She has appeared on hundreds of radio shows and dozens of television programs, including The Oprah Winfrey Show and CNN. She is the author of several books on the topic of verbal abuse, the first of which, The Verbally Abusive Relationship, was praised by Newsweek as "groundbreaking." Patricia lives in the San Francisco Bay Area.

Xe Sands is an award-winning narrator known for her authentic characterizations and intimate delivery. She has more than a decade of experience bringing stories to life through narration, performance, and visual art, including recordings of Wonderland by Stacey D'Erasmo, The Art Forger by B. A. Shapiro, and Survival Lessons by Alice Hoffman. Sands has also been recognized for her engaging romance narrations and was named Most Impressive Narrator Discovery for titles such as Catch of the Day by Kristan Higgins and On Thin Ice by Anne Stuart.

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Reviews

"A timely book that not only helps readers free themselves from controlling types but also seeks to explain the occurrence of verbal abuse, battering, stalking, harassment, hate crimes, gang violence, tyranny, terrorism, and territorial invasion." ---Library Journal Expand reviews
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